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Cat Litter & Relationships

How can cat litter and relationships be compared? If you are having trouble in your relationship, at this time, you do not want to miss this message.

Is your partner driving you crazy? Do you wonder why you even try? One thing is for certain if you are struggling…You are living in the Cat Litter Box with generic litter. You know the kind that does not cover up any of the smell and generic toilet paper is more absorbent than this bunch of rocks, you attempted to save a dollar bill on. (Pause…Take a big whiff, inhale, and smell the nasty litter you are using that is ineffective).

Living in the cat litter box with your partner is disgusting. It means that you take a poo, half way cover it up, allow them to do the same, and your smelly dance is never-ending. 

For example: If you are struggling in your relationship say out loud ‘why’ you feel the way you do.

Did you hear your fears from the past come out? Do you realize most of what you said is no different from cat poo in the box? It happens, it will stay there until it is cleaned up, and it smells to high heaven, until it is bagged and disposed of.

Most arguments involve words like: should, could, would, wish, why did you, what if (which is asked due to their or your paradigm= past), how could you and the past continues to take over the future. 

“You are living in the past or holding your significant other to yesterday. Yet expecting them to not return the favor.”

That’s just like standing in a cat litter box taking a poop, your partner doing the same, although it is covered, you keep digging it up, and smelling the disgusting aroma. 

When in reality once the poop is there the choices are inevitable 1. Enjoy the aroma. Or 2. Clean it out by bagging it, tying the top to seal it and disposing of the evidence.

Does this mean it never happened? Come on we all know sh*t happens. But do we want to continue to dig it back up? Is a better question. 

Are you and your partner living in the cat litter together? Worse yet, have you decided to be cheap and using the kind that never gets rid of the smell? 

Recognize what you are doing, decide what or how the significant other could fix your emotions (not that they can, this is only to recognize why you are feeling so irritable with them), and make a good decision for you both.

It is not about the solution, it is about getting out of the disgusting cat liter box!

My greatest hope is you get a little laugh and a lot of relief. You are awesome and worthy of feeling good! 

Sending you LOTS of LOVE!

God loves you.

Living in the past can always be compared to poo. The past happens, but do you want to continue to live then? When you can decide today to feel and smell better? 

Livelove.teena@gmail.com a message for you if you need it. 

Thank you for reading.

As always:

Livelove

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Carry On!

Written by: Teena Drake

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When you wake up feeling sad…It is usually because you are focusing on yesterday, instead of what you CAN change…today

What the heck are you? Are you a writer? Speaker? Coach, Author, Educator, or Entertainer? What the heck are you? 

After my last speech at Toastmasters in KC, these and many more questions filled my brain. After someone asked the above questions and, “What are your plans, next?” 

I spent the last 24 hours with a sense of sadness as I allowed myself to reminisce through the past. Did I say something wrong? Maybe I am too much? What am I? Who am I?  What if I can’t make it? What if? Why? Maybe I am not good enough?

NEXT…I woke up this morning allowing the same questions to pound through my head like a bull in a china shop! WHAT AM I DOING? You see I was focusing on what had already been done. 

Finally, I found my manuscript from a coaching session of an elementary student! In the very beginning, I taught her how to find and use a ‘Happy Word’. Then I explained that as long as she was focusing on what she CAN CHANGE and not the past, everything would be fine. For example: She had failed a spelling test and was extremely upset with herself for not studying. I redirected her attention to the fact that the only thing she can change is the next spelling test. Unless of course the teacher would let her re-take the last exam. 

Day after day we would discuss why she was sad or angry. Each time it was something she had already done and couldn’t take back. 

Do you do this? I do! If I allow myself to become engrossed in the past. I become sick to my stomach, don’t eat, and wallow in self pitty. But the truth is you or myself, cannot redo yesterday, we can only improve today. 

My answer to all the questions are YES! I am a writer, speaker, coach, published author, educator, entertainer and…much more.

Just like you, I must feel down on occasion to enjoy the up moments. 

If you are feeling sad, depressed, frustrated or angry today…allow your brain to feel the emotions long enough to remind you, this is NOT THE WAY YOU WANT TO FEEL! 

Now, take your smile back. Find your many titles and wear them with pride. I know it isn’t always easy to let go of the past. Or to forgive those who irritated you. However, I promise if you will hold on…one more minute…find a happy thought and reset your vibration. 

Some ideas on how to quickly reset:

  1. Find your happy word
  2. Play uplifting music
  3. Do the twist in your living room
  4. Jump up and down
  5. Cry, but only for a little while
  6. Ask one friend to remind you of something you have done GOOD! 
  7. Write your life resume
  8. Excercise
  9. Kiss your lover like it could be your last
  10. Or just say happy words until you reset your vibration

Last time I checked no one is perfect. I know I am not, but our imperfections mold us and allow our talents to be illuminated! 

Sometimes giving up feels like it would be easier. But I promise even that phase or process of giving up hurts worse than a reset. So I beg of you if you are reading this post…right now…please know:

YOU ARE WONDERFUL JUST THE WAY YOU ARE! YOU HAVE GIFTS TO SHARE WITH THE WORLD! YOU ARE WORTHY OF BEING LOVED! YOU ARE WORTHY OF BEING HAPPY. FEEL HOW AWESOME YOU ALREADY ARE AND KEEP ON ADDING TITLES TO YOUR LIFE WITH PRIDE. 

Happy Coaching- Livelove.teena@gmail.com

Livelove

&

Carry On

Written by: Teena Drake

 

ONE UNIVERSAL GOAL! We all have it, whether you know it or not…so what is it?

I am so excited to share with you! Please, as you read allow yourself to feel the emotions. See the connection between why you do what you do and the universal goal of life. Allow the message to empower you to create the life you have always wanted. Without further delay…THE ONE & ONLY GOAL all living species share!

Have you ever pondered the ‘meaning’ of life? Have you ever felt like there was no meaning? Maybe you have battled with depression, anger, and frustration, on a regular basis. I have spent the past fifteen months asking this simple question…What is the meaning of life? Each client has assisted me in answering this question. They have allowed me to know their fears, emotions, and most intimate desires!

Finally, the answer has developed. The one universal goal to all living species is…

TO BETTER!

Yes, it is as simple as one word, “BETTER!”

For example: The young mother who is living in poverty, attempting to raise her children to be upstanding citizens has one goal…to be more abundant to create a BETTER life for herself and family. Life will be better!

The unknown musician plays music to feel better or to share with the world a better feeling. Life will be better!

Nurses passionately take care of those in need to feel physically better. Life will be better!

Religions make a promise if you will follow these guidelines, you will have a better life or here after. Life will be better!

People who perform catastrophic events think that performing this act will make them FEEL BETTER.

A wild animal who has been caught will most likely attack, why? To feel better or in this sense he or she is fighting back to ensure safety, which is better than being harmed.

Yes, even the negative events or emotions are a part of the Universal Goal. Because those feelings of resistance are indicators that there is something better.

A person who commits suicide, thinks they will feel better, because they don’t see any way for improvement here on earth.

A tree, what about a tree do they share this goal? Yes, think about the beautiful trees who stretch their roots as far as they can reach, to ensure they can always receive the proper nutrients. To Grow Better!

A military woman or man, does not ‘do’ what he/she does because they LOVE the many hurdles they must jump, but rather to be a part of something better. To protect their country and assist in creating a BETTER LIFE. (Thank you for your service).

What about yourself? Think back about your inner desires, visions, and goals. Why do you have them? Why do you continue to persevere? To feel better. To create a better life for your family. To create a better life for yourself.

What is your meaning to YOUR LIFE? Maybe you want to enjoy abundance of money, love, helping other, friends, adventure, spiritual connection. Maybe you want to share your beliefs to assist another in living a better life. We are all in this together and therefore I ask you to choose to: feel better, do better, improve to a better state. After all…the meaning of life is whatever you want it to be. However the one universal goal, we all share, boils down to one simple word…

BETTER!

If you need a little boost of energy to assist you in living the life you have always dreamed of send us an email…Livelove.teena@gmail.com or Teena.drake@gmail.com

We are now offering the first session/message for free and a flat fee for messages on a ‘need’ be basis. Rather than paying for a coach when you feel so good a little extra help, isn’t necessary.

Livelove LLC

Changing the world with one happy thought at a time

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Carry On

Written by: Teena Drake