How do you know what you want? By understanding what you love.
Begin with a quick list of what you KNOW, without question, that you love.
For example: Start saying what you love right now…GO
Name your children, family, friends, animated objects, activities, sports, travel, places, ect.
Please do not think about it too much, but rather enjoy and begin to shine brighter the more you list.
(The first time I did this I couldn’t stop. Throughout the day, I would remember more and my list kept growing. It is a fun activity.)
This beginning process is not a task to begin and end, but rather a continual process which grows and grows for you. Similar to a beautiful garden in Hawaii. Although there are specific growing seasons just like everywhere else, the abundance of vegetation growth is amazing and never ending. Therefore, you don’t focus on the lack of. Instead, the beauty of the over abundance & diversity, continues to fill the land of paradise. Same with LOVE.
Next, add to your questioning and list creating. Ask yourself, What do I want?
For example, I want a new car, a baby, a lover, a lifetime partner, joy, happiness, more abundance, more money, a new home, a new career, more friends, to be…
This list is the same as your love one, all you need to do is ramble it off. State your desires and as you continue to add new ones, allow yourself to ask.
Once you have began these two separate, but combined evolving lists, it’s now time to recognize what you have already accomplished with little to no effort.
By asking those two questions & allowing yourself to answer, freely…you have already accomplished:
1. Changing your mindset.
2. Redirected YOUR FOCUS from everyone else to just YOU!
3. Rediscovered many blessings you already have by creating your love list.
4. Recognized that asking for what you desire is due to creating your love list…which in turn creates,’Your Why!’
How do you know what you want?
A. Find what you love.
B. Find your desires.
C. Discover your, Why?
D. Allow your joy to over take you, as you combine the two lists…to understand Your Why.
For example: If you want to be a New York’s Best Seller, that is your desire. Why?
Because in your ‘love list’ you probably said, “I Love to help others.”
And you realize the NY’s Best Seller list will ensure that your writings will reach a wide variety of people.
You see, your why becomes unnecessary, after awhile. Almost like a silent step that you must take, but due to knowing your love & desires, the why step becomes automatic. Therefore, this process evolves into a FEELING activity.
The universe doesn’t care what your desires are. That’s why it is up to you to know what you love & desire. This way YOU are in control of YOUR LIFE and not tending to someone elses.
Have you already began your lists?
Do what you love & love what you do…isn’t this what we all ‘desire’? To be better?
Go for it, make your day, & begin to focus on what you really want! Leave the worries behind you. Focus on your own desires.
You have got this!
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