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Bring it on…

As the questions of: How am I going to pull all this together? Will people want to come to our workshops? How? What? When? Why am I super nervous? I keep responding with, “Bring it on!!!!!”

You know the right path or the least resistance path (Abraham-Hicks) is the one you are on when you feel it! You feel the fear, but it doesn’t overwhelm you. You feel the terrifying what ifs? However, they disappear quickly. Do I continue to step back a couple of steps, tilt my head, view the steps and think OMG, maybe I am wrong? OF COURSE!

Yesterday, I told one of my executives, who I wouldn’t make it with out, maybe I should go back to a J.O.B. As I wallowed in my silly fears. (Jack Cannefield- False, Evidence, Appearing, Real).

Then it happens! I will schedule several steps to accomplish, bringing us one step closer to providing the world happy thoughts, happy life, happy feelings. (Now that is a great deal of happy). Once, I begin my process each morning, someone essential to our growth will call, email or I meet someone while I am out! This doesn’t happen every now and then, it happens each time. It is amazing how that happens.

As I read and study some portions of my favorite authors, the messages are clear. Brian Tracy explains if you don’t set a goal you wont achieve it. Jack Cannefield discusses leaving blame out of the equation and look forward. Zig Ziglar talks about being careful to not get cooked in the squat, like his mother’s biscuits. Dale Carnegie focuses on how to be the best in the business, I love all of his teachings, but I prefer to say, your best not the best (with the switch of wording we can focus on our own growth, which will leave anyone else’s growth out of the equation).  What about one of my favorites, Wallace D. Waddles his book- The Science of Getting Rich. Waddles discusses the thinking stuff, if and when you think it and visualize it, things form from thoughts. Just to name a few of my favorites.

Life is amazing! When you begin to take care of you, everyone and everything else will fall into place. Will you have doubt and fear? YES, but only you can decide what fear and doubt you choose to keep! ONLY YOU! Isn’t that crazy it all boils down to you? In this fact, me.

I say, “FEAR and DOUBT step aside. I have a message to share. It is a lifetime of studying, gathering and depicting what you need to hear. Therefore, BRING IT ON!!!!!!!! I am excited for the new adventures and although I have fleeting moments of doubt they disappear almost as soon as they appear!”

You are wonderful. Decide today to feel your way throughout the day! If you want to take a nap, find a way to take a nap. Look for the good feeling path and although the more resistant path will appear, choose the one that is more fun! They will both take you to your end result, one just hurts a great deal more.

God Bless

I can’t wait to see you at one of our ‘Happy Workshops’ We are going to have So much FUN, FUN, FUN!!!!!!!!

Livelove

&

Carryon

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Writing Zone

When in writing zone no one else exist. Today has already been a terrific day and it isn’t even noon yet! I had to stop everything I was doing to write on my blog. The topics continue to race through my head for example…”Did you know following instructions can improve your life? or How to know if you are pleasing your partner? or even When I write, I become lost?”

Therefore, you can see why I am sitting down moments before I am suppose to meet some friends for lunch, opening my computer and typing until I can not type anymore. I simply can not help myself. I want to share with you my silly thoughts and hopefully brighten your day.

It is September 12, 2017 and I am suppose to be getting dressed, having lunch with friends, going to the gym and probably working on my new business, “Livelove LLC.” (I will let you in on the Grand Opening as soon as I have a firm date set, I am so excited for this adventure). Anyways, I am now typing away in the ‘writing zone.’ Where no one or anything else exist. There are no worries, fears, anger or anxiety. Just shear freedom. Freedom of thought, Freedom of Speech and Freedom to Breathe! If you show choose you can title your blog as Fiction! Fiction! Fiction! and puctuation, rhyme or reason, shoulds, coulds and woulds are obsolete. Oh I know the English Majors want to control a portion of that statement, Punctuation. (However, it’s true if you so choose, you can use whatever punctuation you want! Or none at all! However, if you have someone read, your writing and they only express what they read, you might want to reconsider)

Anywhoo…As I find myself becoming extremely abundant with new partnerships, sponsorships, friendships, happy relationships, I some times slip off to this sweet spot, my blog and type.

I was asked the other day, “How much would you charge for people to read your blog?”

I shivered at the thought (because they are priceless to me)! Remember, when I started writing, after my accident, I told everyone I am sharing this information for selfish reasons. Why you ask? Because I was given several extremly special messages, on how to create a life full of blissfull happiness, during one of the seemingly worst times of my life. However, my one requirement or agreement was that I would share it with others.

Therefore, I will always continue to share my inner thoughts on here. Some topics are funny others are not, but all will benefit us all.

Back to ‘Writing Zone’ today my thoughts drift off into money = ? Hmmm this is a deep thought and I am not sure where I am going with it, just yet. However, I am in the writing zone so it doesn’t really matter! I can let it flow. I am free, blissful and happy while in this private, yet by choice public, writing zone. I can write negatively about money, I can write how to get more of it? or How it can be both beneficial or detrimental. Or I can continue on how amazing my writing zone is!!!!!!

Did you just feel what I did in that last paragraph? I provided you with a limited amount of emotions to follow along as you read. Some of you, at this point, are frustrated with my bouncing from topic to topic. While others love it and follow in perfect harmony. However, it doesn’t matter which emotion/feeling you had, it was ‘real’ to you.

I know one thing for sure, whatever else I decide to write about, I will be in my ‘Happy Spot.’ My dear friend reminded me, “Once you find your sweet spot you will do anything to stay in it!”

The truth is she is one hundred percent correct. And if you are like me, you probably have several sweet spots or happy spots. When I am with Eric time stands still. It always has! I love being with other people in fact my favorite thing to do is travel around meeting new people. That is two examples of other ‘Happy Spots’ , I have in my life. Being with my children, all  of my family, working on my business the list continues on and on. The trick to this being negative or positve, happy or sad, is up to YOU!

You are the ‘sweet spot.’ You are perfect the way you are! Can you improve your life? Yes,. Can you become successful or find your ‘Sweet Spot’ after all that has happened? It is too late? No, no, no switch your focus right now and your happiness journey will begin.

Hmmmm… Have I gone way off track? Yes, I am bouncing around like a bouncy ball. However, don’t forget this is my blog and the should, could, woulds do not exist, by choice!

Therefore, lets return to the conversation of, YOU are the ‘Sweet Spot!’

Because it is your choice how you feel. Let me explain this in a different manner…Based on your paradigm, your choice of thoughts and how you handle YOUR Circle of Influence which guess who that is? YOU, is your happy/sweet/joyful/loving/best for YOU Spot! No you can not dispute it. The truth is its up to you and how you feel towards, about or through anything in life.

Probably the most annoying question I have been asked since my accident has been; How did you make it through that crazy of a break? Not that it made me mad or anything like that, but sometimes I do want to respond with something crazy like, “After surgery, I looked at those doctors and I said ‘I meant to do that guys, it was just a test from the Angels, to see if I was ready for the life I always wanted.”

Then I jumped up and ran out of the hospital, grabbed Eric on my way out, was healed and I saw the light!!!!

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Come on!!!! I have earned my Expert titles through the school of hard knocks. I didn’t see the signs that say slow down, you are not going in the right direction. Therefore, my healing process was not easy to endure, but beneficial for my life as well as yours. But what oher choice did I have? I had plenty of choices, I just chose to feel better, improve and live for today.

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Next time, you are faced with a negative or difficult situation. Stop, breathe and feel the right or correct decision, that brings you closer to your life long dreams, coming true. I was hard headed and had to take the long way around, but you don’t have to. Find your happy spot or spots and go to them more and more. The more you visit, the sooner they will become your reality.

Be Happy

Find Your Happy Zone

Writing Zone

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Inspire me??

Inspire me, love me, caress me, give me adventure, give me a life, make me happy, I need you, I need…I, me, myself, oh there is a you? 

I know the beginning of this entry is a bit bizarre, but it wouldn’t be me writing if it was ‘normal’. 

As I search for inspiration on this beautiful Friday, I almost become overwhelmed with topics to write about. Then it happened, I realized my topic today is ME or should I say YOU! 

KEEP READING IT’S NOT REALLY JUST ABOUT ME!

As you have probably figured out by now my soul purpose in life is to research, create an atmosphere and educate you on how to be happy! Yes, that is my mission and vision. My belief is that my new knowledge combined with my past learning (critical thinking past students) I believe I can teach the entire world how to find their own happiness!!! 

Therefore, here is the first idea you must understand before anything you learn, from me, can help you. 

Ready? Anticipation building? You feel your very special spirit and all your cells jumping up and down, to hear what your first step is? Okayyyyy….

ONLY YOU, ONLY YOU, ONLY YOU, ONLY YOU CAN CREATE YOUR HAPPINESS. Now that I shouted that statement let me do my little educator trick… (I am whispering like the tiny voice in your head does all the time called you concious) you and only you can create your own happiness no matter what no, if, ands or butts! 

After reading that you are probably saying…”Wow!! Teena that was a big fat let down. I already knew that, but if I knew how, I would do it. That’s why I expect everyone else to make me happy. I am trying to be what they want me to be. I do for them to make them happy why can’t I have the same in return?” 

Please don’t give up on my lessons for you yet!!!! I do understand everything you are saying. To validate my last statement, let me attempt to give YOU some of YOUR THOUGHTS. (If you don’t need validation from me, skip the next paragraph).

“Butt (no I am not misspelling but I believe the word should almost always have the definition of ass) Teena he did this to me. He beat me, he cheated on me, he didn’t give me enough attention. Or she bitches all the time, she is boring, she gives too much to the kids. Or you don’t understand I am sick and no one understands how much I have suffered. My mom is mean. My family is abusive.”

I could literally go on for pages and pages with the statements I have heard why they aren’t happy, due to an outside incident. 

“So how could it be true? How if I have all this baggage or what I entitle- paradigm, could it be possible that only I can make me happy?”

That above question is for both you and I. I always asked the same question. Idk how I just know the answer is YES! It is true you and only you can make or create your own happiness.

Think about a time when you were entering a situation and something didn’t Feel right, butt you shoved your questioning or not good feeling aside. The person in the situation even convinced you to not listen to your own intuition.  Therefore, you, proceeded only to result in a moment of misery or worse depression. That situation or that person didn’t make you miserable nor did he or she make you happy! You had the feeling of, hmmm I am not sure I feel good about this. Yet you continued to persist almost begging for the outside people or event to MAKE or CREATE your happiness. 

It is you who creates your happiness or sadness. Why do you think religions teach “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” 

Or Scientist teach for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. 

Because how you feel is from you and if you feel happy, you will be happy. You will see happiness in others. It is extremely difficult to feel happy and bubbly around someone who is gloom and doom. 

Please do not misunderstand I have had my fair share of low points in my life. I have felt the outside forces pulling me down. However, after several months of sitting in silence mostly by myself or at least in my own brain, I promise you and I create our own happiness! 

I do not know how many more times I will write this message, because it keeps coming up. However, I promise it is the first and only first step you must take or concept you must accept before you can be successful at finding your own happiness. 

To me myself and I- I love you!! Try it…look in the mirror and say I LOVE YOU. Next begin to feel the happy feeling. Even if it is for a fleeting moment you will begin to desire that feeling and search for more ways to create your happiness.