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What do Snow White and Cinderella have in common? 

As we study a new way to habitually live, it only seems appropriate to analyze some childhood memories. You see in today’s world our queens and princesses are more dominant or independent. However, the original princesses such as Snow White and Cinderella were considered damsels in distress, helpless and in need of a hero. I can remember when I would point out many negatives about the two characters and think how sexist the shows truly were. However, it never failed, if the girls were watching either of these shows, I would become mesmerized and stop whatever I was doing to complete the movie. (I even played the role of Snow White in a school play at one time.)

Today, I am asking you to take a different perspective on our damsel’s in distress! What if we simply accepted their stories based on the time frame they were written and first watched. Would we see their lives in a different light? Let’s see if these two princesses (later to become queen) can impact our lives and strategically place us on a path of least resistance.

Snow White…abandoned by her stepmother (the queen), sent out to be killed, life was spared because? She was super nice and beautiful. You see that Huntsman couldn’t do it! Even if he was going against orders of the Queen. Snow White emitted kindness, caring, understanding and positive vibrations. Now let us think…hmmm how would you or I feel if we were taken into the woods, only to realize it was our last walk from home, the beautiful castle and home are, no more. Although the man who was supposed to take our life, didn’t go thru with the deed, he did leave you or me in the dark and say run for your life! Never return or the queen will kill you! After writing all of that I realize how brave she really was! I would have probably fallen apart.

Cinderella…abused by her step-mother and sisters, expected to clean, cook and take care of her cruddy step family. Only to be locked away in her room when the prince came looking for her. Yet, she continued to stay positive! She would clean, feed the animals, sing and from the stories point of view, she was a blissful human being. Again put yourself in her shoes. How would you feel? Would you refuse to meet all the demands of these horrific people? Or would you leave never to return? I must admit I would have probably been killed on the spot for my smart mouth! However, Cinderella continued to find a good feeling and stayed in that vibration. She would sing, dance, whistle or speak to the animals.

In comparison, both stories have a great deal in common. However, the one common attribute for each princess is their positive attitude. They both saw a better life. Snow White ended up finding seven dwarfs who loved ‘whistling while they worked.’ They didn’t mind their jobs and were ecstatic as well as appreciative of Snow White’s talents. Cinderella found her way to the ball. (Which was an amazing opportunity for anyone in the land). Her prince didn’t only recognize her beauty, but he saw the positive, kind, fun loving Cinderella, for who she really is.

Do you think those are all coincidences? Do you think it was by chance they received what they wanted out of life? Why didn’t they continue in the same old rut and continue to be abused? After a great deal of analyzing these two stories, it is pretty simple to observe how these ladies found their path to least resistance. They had a vision and what their life was, at the time, was not their vision. However, neither princess ever gave up!!!!

I do realize we live in a world full of despair and depression. Is it the president’s fault? Is it your spouse’s? Oh, I understand it is your children’s fault? I also realize these are fairy tale characters we are discussing…does it really matter? No! It is a great comparison!

Begin today, to tell your fairytale. Even if you are a damsel in distress, flat broke, feeling like crap and wishing you could just receive a simple break, in life. The GREAT NEWS is YOU CAN!!!!!!!! What is your story? Yes, everyone has a negative story, but if you listen closely, they only receive a great outcome if they are looking for it. Tell the story you want. It is okay if it is sometimes a struggle, do it anyway. In my home, we entitle this, “Fake it till you make it!”

Isn’t it time to feel GREAT! Feel it, visualize it and receive. Ask for what you want and believe you deserve it. Then receive it!!! Just like these two princesses, yes they had to go thru some crap to receive the life they both desired. However, they continued to feel good and eventually both received a life of joy, wealth, happiness, partnership and much more. You can do this too! How? Change your story it is as simple as that!

Livelove,

Your Pinkologist! (That makes me laugh every time I write it because? It just does!)

 

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If you know of someone struggling….

Hello let me introduce myself my name is love, pink, joyful, laughter, fun, accepting, free-spirited, sensual, kind, caring, understanding, insightful, focused, millionaire, educator, magnificent, dynamic, sparkly, diamond lover, debater, healthy, swimmer, who loves others and wants them to come along and take this ‘HAPPY’ adventure with me! My name is Teena Drake, my game is living life as HAPPY as possible.

Wow! Brag much Teena? Nope I don’t have to brag this is how people have described me and the adjectives I have chosen to identify my life with. You see my entire life has been altered for the better of me, but the most exciting part is for the betterment of you too!

You might be puzzled, but allow me to take a couple of pieces of this puzzle and show you a glimpse of the possibilities. I am so excited right now I can barely type! I keep walking away saying don’t do this! It’s to scary to tell the world what you have learned! But if I keep it a secret well I can’t keep this feeling or life! Which puts me in a pickle! Therefore, I am busting out!!!! So if you are ready to see who you are and find that ‘HAPPY’ place you have been longing for follow me on this adventure…as I reveal a lifetime of learning, but let’s begin with what I have learned since December 8th, 2016. The event, the blessing, that had to happen for me to have received such a wonderful gift for the world – that can seem gloomy and sad. It’s a gift full of joy, happiness, adventure or just a hike in solitude the world is a beautiful place as long as you are happy!

First Assignment:  1, Write your name  2. Write all the adjectives or activities, that make up you (NOT OTHER PEOPLE) 3. Now ask by text or email so they can think about it, how some of your friends, family members, or acquaintances would describe you. (The third step came from Jack Cannefield’s writing). 4. Read all of them and delete any you do not like and own the ones you love. 5. Anything you would like to share about this first step to ‘Being’ ‘Happy’ tag me so I can read it and share! I look forward to reading about the amazing YOU!

When I began this process I was unsure how other people would describe me, but some of the things I said about myself were not nice. If you come up with a similar scenario and you are saying negative things about yourself, even if you won’t write it you are thinking it continuously, STOP! I know it’s not that easy trust me, but I promise I can help you. Mmmm I take that back I can’t help you, but I can provide you with the tools to help yourself.

I hope you have a beautiful weekend and remember God Loves You No Matter What!

Please! Please!Please, Share all of my post if you are struggling or know of someone else struggling with this game of ‘Life!’ Why? You ask? Because I have been given a gift that if, I want to keep, I must share it with as many people possible. Therefore, I am asking that you tell your friends and family to follow me on WordPress, Facebook-Teena Drake, Twitter-Livelove pinkologist@TeenaDrake, Instagram- live_love_pinkologist and you tube. When I begin to video this series I will let you know so you can subscribe to Livelove Pinkologist. (Or you can subscribe anyways). Thank you and God Bless Each of You and may you BE HAPPY!

Home Sweet Home

I just found a story I wrote while in College. In fact it was the first time I ever aspired to be a writer. Or at least that I can remember. Picture this… second semester, just turned 18 years young, was at Western Kentucky University, dreams were shattered, boys were dumb/mean to me (just some of them), working 40 hours at three different jobs and I was only passing one class….Creative Writing.

If you are bored skip down past three paragraphs! I have it marked for you!

I wish so much I could remember his name! However, the professor was around 5 ft 8 inches tall (maybe a little taller), salt-pepper hair, kind of happy face like a clown without makeup, but a happy clown. He gave us a story to write about home. I remember thinking what a dumb thing to ask us to write about in the beginning of the second semester. I mean I am never going to get homesick so eh this is a dumb writing assignment.

As most of you know he didn’t care what I thought of his lesson! At all!!!! Therefore, I did the assignment. I wrote funny short stories about events that had happened over the summer between graduation and up to that particular point. I remember receiving my paper back and it looked like a blood bath. It needed editing in the worst kind of way! However, I had an A++. I was confused. At the top of the paper I received an excellent GRADE, but more importantly I remember the teachers words written on the top of that paper. It said, “Teena, you are a great writer. This should be your career don’t let anyone tell you any different.”

I don’t think I told anyone for a long time about my class, grade or his beautiful words because I was unsure I believed him. A writer? I don’t want to be poor! Why would I ever be a writer? I was always told I sucked in English from every English teacher I had except for one.

IF you need to skip to the best part! Begin here!!!!

However, I recently found my paper entitled Home Sweet Home! As I read his words on top of that paper and began to read my writings the tears flooded my eyes. I would read between tears dropping one by one. You see what he wrote changed my life forever, but what I wrote changed me.

The first paragraph began with this introduction: Come on! Come on…take a walk with me! Be careful because as you read your desires to move to the place, I call home, will become overwhelming! As you enter the county, crossing any county line you would like, the first thing you will enjoy is the rolling hills, full of beautiful trees that look so enticing you will want to stop and explore. (Don’t, it might not be safe). Maybe the nature doesn’t impress you, but the people will. Walk into any business including gas stations, banks, ummm okay the Country Store or drug store and you will find a smiling face. If they are not smiling they will tell you why and before you leave you will have made a new best friend, plus they will be smiling. Some people will walk up to give you a big hug and ask how your grandma is doing. Every turn, hillside, home is perfect. As for entertainment that is even amazing. We have community dances, dinners, Fall Festivals, hay rides, great bonfires for whenever and the Ohio River for summer fun. Still not impressed? Neither was I! However, let me continue because I didn’t know what I had until I was gone!

I will stop there because my paper was long and included names of some dear friends.

This paper entitled Home Sweet Home is still true today. I was with my husband most of the day and finally on our trip down Coopers Bottom he said, “Honey you talked to more people, hugged them, called them by name, sang to them (Happy Birthday) today then I think most people do in a lifetime! I am not complaining, but wow I am not sure you will ever be able to move.”

I looked at him for a long time before I responded, “No matter where I go or what I do. No matter how many places I visit or live…This will always be my HOME! Where everyone is friendly and it is beautiful beyond belief. It may not be perfect and definitely has limited amenities, but I don’t care. I love these people, our community  is the greatest. Anyone who was born and raised here may have left many years ago, but if you ask them where are you from? They will still respond Trimble County!”

 

 

Believe in Energy!

I have been studying the law of Attraction for quite sometime and yet I am always amazed when I practice it. In case you have not studied this universal law I will explain it to the best of my ability!

The Law of Attraction says whatever you think about you bring about. Or in the Bible it says ask and ye shall receive. Another is energy flows where attention goes. There are many more like for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Last but not least what goes around comes around.

I realize those last two do not appear to be a definition for this law, but think about it people who practice using the law of attraction, always say it doesn’t matter if it is a negative thought/desire or a positive thought/desire it will send either/or back to you.

For example: My thoughts and fears while writing this will come to fruition if I so choose to focus on other people’s beliefs and thoughts. If I sat here and didn’t post this because I was afraid of negative feedback from religious groups or followers, who disagree with my beliefs. However, I do not choose to utilize this law in a negative way so I believe when you read this, you will have learned something or been so excited about the information you will comment, re-post, follow my blogg or send me all the best in my new career.

Anyways, recently we have had some struggles in our family. Nothing bad, but just kind of stressful. I would say my prayers for everyone and then stay a little longer, in prayer, to help relieve the stress.

Saturday morning Nick reminded me to only focus on the positive and/or the end result. We talked a bit and a light bulb came on! YOU are RIGHT!!!!! I am stressing out because all I keep focusing on is stressing out. Sounds kind of crazy, but that is true. You know how you think about something that could be or might happen, too much and you make your self sick? Thats exactly what the law of attraction does.

So I reflected back on my studies, read a few articles and jumped back on track! Now the first day was a struggle. I began with a grateful list, everything I was grateful for. Then I would catch myself worrying or stressing and I would read it. Then I became aware! Aware of my conversations, my thoughts or reactions to events. Slowly I began to see a lighter, bubblier, happy me! One by one events did an about face. Even when Nick needed me to drive to Bedford to jump his car after leaving the lights on, I didn’t feel negative or frustrated. I just went to Bedford, enjoyed the music, hugged him and went on my way.

Normally, I would share more examples with you guys, creating a picture of exactly what happened just to prove it was real or give you a sense of AWE, but not today. I am not giving you a conclusion. YOU ARE…Your closing will only happen if you believe in ENERGY!

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Has been 14 days! Time to catch up!

To my readers,

It has been fourteen days since my last post. I went on a longer vacation, than I had planned. However, it was fabulous!!!! My next post will be about Camden on the Lake. It was a magnificent weekend getaway! Next I will write about Kansas City, Kansas and my wonderful adventures. To complete this tour from Mid-West to East Coast I will write about Nashville TN. (One of my favorite cities) and then the loop to home.

Funny! I think about different topics to write about everyday. Now I need to just take time to write everyday. I have 360 more post to go. I hope you enjoy the next few!! They will be about sights to see and fascinating people I have met along the way.

Don’t stop reading!!!!!!!!!!! I love to travel and meet new people and my mission is to provide you with a new bucket list or a place to visit. Have a Blessed Day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love,

Your Pinkologist

Teena Drake